Benefits of Swinging
To
Relationships
Excerpted from Secrets of Swinging by Steve Anderson

No, this chapter is not just propaganda for the women. It is absolutely true that for those that approach it properly, there are astounding benefits derived from swinging to a relationship. In fact, statistically the divorce rate among swingers, is considerably lower than that of the rest of the population.

This is not to say that Swingers need to be married. It is better though if you are a tightly bound couple. Swinging is not something to do on a date or once a year on your birthday. It is a consciously adopted lifestyle that requires education, communication, patience and understanding to be successful. Doesn't that sound a little familiar? Isn't that also the formula
for a successful relationship? Of course it does. That's just one of the reasons that relationships and Swinging compliment each other so effectively. Here are the significant reasons swinging will benefit your relationship. (assuming you have a healthy relationship to begin with)

1.Swinging opens lines of communications - Your satisfaction and longevity in the lifestyle both depend on bi-directional communications. So that there is no misunderstanding here, that means not only speaking, but listening.

2.Swinging fosters trust - Your individual trust is like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger your trust muscle gets. Swinging is the perfect opportunity to exercise this muscle in a controlled environment, with mutually agreed upon rules.

3.Swinging teaches Jealousy management - Jealousy is part of human nature. There are times when it catches all of us by surprise. Swinging helps in dealing with jealous feelings by facing them head on with open communications. Dealing with jealousy is similar to overcoming a fear. Sometimes the best way to overcome a fear is to bring it out in the open and face it.

4.Swinging fights cheating - Most swingers will tell you, especially the guys, that they would be crazy to cheat! Why should they when they already have the best of all worlds? Most people cheat to feed their ego or for a change of pace. Swinging provides numerous avenues to feed
the ego and eliminate boredom.

5.Swinging adds spice to a relationship - Let's face it. Any activity, no matter how stimulating, eventually gets boring, without change.

6.Swinging improves sex - Before a swinging encounter the thought of it makes sex very exciting. After the encounter the memory of it makes sex better than ever.

7.Swinging provides Experiences - One partner often complains that they've only been intimate with a very few people in their life. They regret that they never "sowed some wild oats." Swinging lets you spread those oats!

8.Swinging is great for role-play and fantasy - Here is a fertile ground to act out your fantasies and live your dreams.

9.Swinging Teaches - By actually seeing people have sex, you see what others do. This stimulates ideas for more fun in the relationship.

I can tell you from personal experience and the experiences of countless others, that the benefits I'm describing are valid. People that learn, communicate and are patient improve their relationships from the Swinging experience.
Excerpted from Secrets of Swinging by Steve Anderson